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PTSD, Sleep, and Socially Awkward

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 Sometimes, we can follow the sleep hygiene, we can do the exercise, we can take the meds... We can literally do everything right,  follow the therapist's and the med manager's and the physician's orders... and if PTSD has not been acknowledged as a part of the equation and isn't being adequately treated in the way our body needs , then we are masking...masking... masking... Until the final straw... or a loud noise... or simply the last coping skill runs out... and then how long until another good night sleep? How long until any sleep? Meanwhile, we know we need sleep. We know we are approaching being unreasonable. We know that we are not being our best. The question is, do we turn that inwards or outwards? I guess it depends on how far out we go without sleep, and how well ingrained we are regarding our place in society. Majority of people assigned female at birth? They have generally been well socialized to "behave well", to not make a fuss, don't draw a...

Adventures of the Chronically Ill & Socially Awkward

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Miss Us? We missed you, and there is a lot  for us to catch up on... Yes, we tried another platform. Actually, we tried a few platforms. Despite their promises, they were not  disability friendly. Then life happened. Our kitchen exploded, we ended up essentially homeless, we finally found a place to live and discovered we had a lot more healing to do than we realized. Our oldest kid had twins, our youngest passed away, and Adventures  got put on hold. Then covid happened, we both got covid, we survived covid, and Adventures stayed on hold. We had surgeries, watched far too many friends and family die, and still kept Adventures  on hold. We have volunteered, researched, worked on healing (ourselves and others) and realized we could spend the rest of our life on hold... So, I found a new platform. Please, if you like the premise of hearing about the foils and fables of navigating the world with plenty of quirky spins, do the Google thing that will get you notification...